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6 months ago (2020-01-14 12:13:19)

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“One of my best friends is getting engaged, and I think she’s making a mistake. I brought it up the other night. We were both a little drunk. And she didn’t get angry, but she told our other friends that I seemed disappointed in her. Maybe I overstepped my bounds. I’ve asked myself if I’m just jealous. Or if I’m trying to bring us back to the place we were: two roommates, watching movies, exploring New York. But I really think my only concern is her happiness. I just don’t think her fiancé ‘gets’ her. He’s a really nice guy. He’s not asking her to change or anything. She’s just not herself when she’s around him. She always seems like she’s about to say one thing-- then she’ll pause-- and say something else. Like she’s searching for the words that will make her who she needs to be for the relationship to work.”

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she i s her to the a just and my think that if m like or not really for t say he but one friends were we other is anything always him around when herself getting change asking guy nice engaged gets fianc don seems both about words relationship be needs who make will best concern searching else something pause-- ll then thing-- happiness making only disappointed asked ve bounds overstepped maybe in seemed up night our told angry get didn drunk myself it little two york new exploring movies watching roommates place brought back us bring of trying mistake jealous work


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summersong___ Profile
@summersong___ posted 6 months ago

@staycrazyandkind

biglay_ Profile
@biglay_ posted 6 months ago

Wow same

_abbieg Profile
@_abbieg posted 6 months ago

@naaz.v

alexamariex3 Profile
@alexamariex3 posted 6 months ago

Mind your business

alexamariex3 Profile
@alexamariex3 posted 6 months ago

😂😂

lerinalta Profile
@lerinalta posted 6 months ago

I think it's beneficial that you told her. Even if she moves forward with the relationship, your words will be in the back of her mind when she really needs them. A friend of mine told me something similar and even though I stayed in the relationship WAY TOO LONG, I remembered her words and they gave me strength when I really needed them.

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@marjamangili posted 6 months ago

Frances?

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@katerin_beltran51 posted 6 months ago

I’ve been there... just learned to say your piece and move on.

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@i.d.u.n.n.u posted 6 months ago

@osumareton

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@ojima_kekesky posted 6 months ago

🤦

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@dunks.fox posted 6 months ago

I appreciate your self-awareness in handling the situation.

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@candicezhou1 posted 5 months ago

@jaelyvetteavila

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@alainafaithwhite posted 5 months ago

Like Frances Ha

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@madelyn2nd posted 5 months ago

@bjorklvr someone alert greta gerwig

johnleahy12 Profile
@johnleahy12 posted 5 months ago

Is this frances Ha

johnleahy12 Profile
@johnleahy12 posted 5 months ago

Greta is that you

rishika__3 Profile
@rishika__3 posted 5 months ago

@lakshika__ I felt this when u with ur 'other' friends

msfinn63 Profile
@msfinn63 posted 5 months ago

I’ll pray 🙏for u😍

with_nerdy Profile
@with_nerdy posted 5 months ago

Sometimes people have to make their own mistakes to truly learn from them. I know it’s hard, but let her be 🤗 sooner or later she will realize something is wrong.

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@andrea_mcandrew33 posted 5 months ago

Experience is the hardest kind of teacher! It gives you the test first, And the lesson afterwards 👌

shet.himanshu Profile
@shet.himanshu posted 4 months ago

Actually the girl is not fit for her.

ashley.bria Profile
@ashley.bria posted 3 months ago

I felt this once but minded my business. I wish I hadn’t because my friend truly suffered til that divorce came

reallynowbecca Profile
@reallynowbecca posted 3 months ago

I don’t know how old you are, but as you navigate new relationships yourself, you will find that there are different versions of your personality that you are willing to explore with others...this slightly different versions of yourself reflected in others. You and your best friend share a version of yourselves that i hope will keep you connected over time.

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@sgvedomske posted 1 month ago

@missesminx here’s another one

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